I Was Ghosted After a Perfect Date—But Then I Found Out Why
It was one of those nights where everything seemed to fall into place perfectly. The restaurant was cozy, the conversation was effortless, and the laughter was genuine. We talked about our dreams, our favorite books, and even the places we wanted to travel to someday. As we walked along the street afterward, the city lights reflected off the pavement, casting a warm glow on what felt like the beginning of something real.
But then, silence.
Days passed with no response to my texts. My calls went unanswered. That exciting spark of possibility turned into a gnawing pit of anxiety. Had I said something wrong? Did I misread the signs? The self-doubt crept in like a storm cloud, darkening my thoughts. I had been ghosted, and I had no idea why.
The Discovery That Changed Everything
Weeks later, through a mutual friend, I found out the reason behind his sudden disappearance. It had nothing to do with me—it was all about him. He had his own struggles, his own insecurities, and in the end, he wasn’t ready for what we were building. While this revelation offered some comfort, it also sparked something deeper within me.
I realized that I had been spending too much time and energy focusing on people and relationships that weren’t serving me. This wasn’t the first time I’d been left feeling hurt and confused after putting my heart on the line. But this time, something clicked. Instead of wallowing in the disappointment, I made a decision: I was going to stop focusing on bad relationships and start focusing on something that would truly make me happy—building my own business.
Shifting My Focus: From Heartbreak to Hustle
The transition wasn’t easy. Shifting my focus from romantic relationships to entrepreneurship required a complete change in mindset. I had always been passionate about beauty, particularly waxing and lash services. I knew there was potential to create something special, something that could empower not only myself but also other women who wanted to feel confident and beautiful.
So, I threw myself into the process. I started with research—endless hours of studying the beauty industry, learning about the latest trends, and understanding what clients were looking for. I took courses, attended workshops, and invested in my skills. But more importantly, I started to believe in my own potential.
The Birth of My Six-Figure Beauty Service Business
With newfound determination, I launched my beauty service business. In the beginning, it was just me and a small room I rented out to perform services. I specialized in waxing and lash extensions, and I focused on creating a unique, personalized experience for each client. Word of mouth spread quickly, and before I knew it, my schedule was filling up.
But I wasn’t satisfied with just being busy. I wanted to build something sustainable, something that would last through economic downturns and even unforeseen events like the lockdown of 2020. I knew that to achieve this, I had to think beyond just providing services—I needed to establish a brand.
Building a Resilient Business
The beauty industry is competitive, and the economic downturns that came and went, along with the challenges of the 2020 lockdown, tested my business in ways I never imagined. But I was prepared. I had built a strong foundation by focusing on what mattered most: quality, consistency, and connection with my clients.
During the lockdown, while many businesses struggled to stay afloat, I adapted. I began offering virtual consultations, DIY waxing and lash kits, and even online tutorials to keep my clients engaged. My commitment to serving my clients, even when the world seemed to be falling apart, paid off. Not only did my business survive, but it thrived.
I also expanded my offerings to include digital products, creating ebooks on how to wax, how to attract clients, and even how to teach waxing and lashing to others. This not only provided an additional income stream but also allowed me to share my knowledge and empower others to build their own businesses.
The Turning Point: From Heartache to Empowerment
Looking back, I realize that being ghosted was one of the best things that could have happened to me. It forced me to re-evaluate my priorities and focus on building something meaningful. I stopped chasing after relationships that left me feeling empty and started investing in myself and my future.
My business is now a six-figure enterprise that has not only survived but thrived through some of the toughest times. And the best part? I’ve built it on my terms, with passion, dedication, and a commitment to empowering others.
How You Can Build Your Own Beauty Business
If my story resonates with you, and you’ve been thinking about starting your own beauty business, I’m here to help. Whether you want to specialize in waxing, lashes, or both, I’ve created resources that can guide you every step of the way.
My ebooks cover everything from the technical skills of waxing and lashing to the business strategies you need to attract and retain clients. I’ll show you how to build a business that not only supports you financially but also gives you the freedom and flexibility to live life on your terms.
And if you’re not sure where to start or if the beauty industry isn’t your thing, I’ve got you covered too. My Digital CEO Bundle includes 9 ebooks that will teach you how to build a successful business on social media, no matter what industry you’re in and the best part is you can sell it after. These resources are designed to help you navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship and create a brand that stands the test of time.
Conclusion: Embrace the Shift
Getting ghosted after what felt like a perfect date was a painful experience, but it led to something far more valuable—a thriving business and a life filled with purpose. If you’ve been putting your energy into relationships that aren’t serving you, maybe it’s time to shift your focus too. You have the power to create something amazing, something that will bring you joy, fulfillment, and financial independence.
So, whether you want to build a beauty business like I did or explore other entrepreneurial paths, remember that every setback is an opportunity in disguise. Embrace the shift, invest in yourself, and start building the life you’ve always dreamed of.
If you’re ready to take the leap, check out my ebooks and the Digital CEO Bundle. They’re packed with everything you need to get started on your entrepreneurial journey. Your future is waiting—go create it!
